Get Back with Your Ex
Did you know that it’s actually pretty easy to get back with your ex boyfriend after a break up? The problem is that most people just end up screwing things up.
The are constantly harassing him calling, emailing, texting, or even stalking him. This is not going to help you get back with your ex for two reasons
First, I highly doubt that this is what attracted him to you in the first place. People that call all the time just come across as needy and desperate. And stalking someone is just plain creepy and should never be done under any circumstances.
Second, just about every break up happens because one partner needs space from the relationship to think things through or reevaluate life. If you are constantly trying to reach out to your ex, you’ll just be pushing him farther away. He will feel like he needs to create even more distance between the two of you in order to get that space to think things through.
So what you should do is give him that space. Set aside about two to four weeks to just stop contacting him completely. I know this will seem like absolute torture for you, but it will benefit both of you and will help bring the two of you back together.
During this time apart, you should do two things to increase the odds that you can get back with your ex-boyfriend:
First, try to really understand why the break up happened. If the official story is that you broke up because you didn’t do the dishes, that is probably not the real reason. Dig deeper and you might be surprised what you find. Maybe you were too needy and didn’t give him enough time to himself. Or maybe it’s the exact opposite of that and he felt that you were too distant and unwilling to open up fully with him. This isn’t a time to blame him, but a time to start objectively evaluating what went wrong in the relationship and how you may have contributed to the break up. If you really want to get back with your ex-boyfriend, then you really need to understand why the relationship fell apart so you can take action to make sure you don’t repeat the same mistakes.
Second, you want to remember that you should seem to disappear from the face of the earth for these two to four weeks, at least from his perspective. During this time he will be left wondering what happened to you and he will start to get curious about you. He’ll start to remember all the good times you’ve shared and suddenly you may even find that he tries to contact you. The more strictly you can pull this off, the stronger the effects will be.
Giving your ex-boyfriend the space he asked for is one of the most important things you can do if you want to get back with your ex. You want him to get a taste of what life is like without you. Chances are, he won’t like it and he’ll be left wondering what you’re up to. Suddenly he becomes the one that starts to pursue you. Keep him wanting more of you, and soon you’ll find that he actually starts to beg you to take him back.
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